By Pete Hamill

‘we face a choice between the easy and less effective attempts at control, and the harder, riskier and much more effective move to leadership.’

And…

‘Notice what happens to you when you feel the need to control – you will probably tense up (notice where), and feel an unpleasant out of control feeling. Perhaps there will be a familiar voice in your head telling you it’s all about to go horribly wrong.’

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